有人在網路貼出他的徵友訊息，附帶一些條件，陳述因為孤獨，需要有人可以填補心靈的空虛，看得出來是一則徵求伴侶的廣告。

最終出現的空虛填補者來自一場邂逅，雙方很快來電，一切美好的發生和徵友完全沒有關係。

你有屬於自己的專業，可是持續待業中，為了生活，必須去找到一份和自己的專業無關的工作。

有一家企業正好需要你這種專技人才，經由朋友介紹，你順利走進可以發揮專業的工作領域，之前的忍氣吞聲宛如一場惡夢。

網路徵友和應徵工作都沒有錯，都是情勢所逼，都有不得已的苦衷。不餵母乳的母親也有不得已的苦處，不是工作忙碌，就是擠不出母乳。

大腦的解釋一般都合情合理，可是機運的故事通常都跳過大腦的思維，人類的大腦是搞錯優先順序的高手，同時也是辯解的高手。

 

坐在醫生面前和坐在面試官面前存在雷同的思維，那是一種絕境思維，脫離絕境一般的認知是困難。

「給我藥物」和「給我工作」具備思考上的呼應，嚴格說，乞丐要幾個銅板或要一塊麵包也是相同的動機模式，都曾經在十字路口轉錯方向。

人最欠缺的心法是少固執多包容、少責怪多同理，這是生命哲理，也是養生道理。

如果我是面試官，前來應徵工作的人留給我「渴望能幫忙」的印象，而不是「只要有工作」，我會考慮錄用他。

立足人間，我們從來都不是為自己的獲得而降臨，為眾人服務是我們來到此的初衷。

找到自己的人有機會找到健康，因為自己和身體在一起，因為愛自己的人就愛自己的身體，這一段領悟是遠離病痛的重要導航。

 

我們都是先有生命才考慮要工作，這是不變的順序，可是我們必須非常審慎的分析眼前的工作面向，先有工作再談活命的現象佔了不小的比重。

服務優先，奉獻其次，好處最後，工作不分貴賤的準則中，順序只要顛倒，態度上會有徵兆。

不是有一份工作就萬無一失，也不是有錢就確保生活無虞，存活都不是問題，順序搞錯是大問題。

定義健康的方向錯誤是大問題，製藥邏輯和營養需求把養生世界搞得一饋十起，社會教育崇尚商法，引導民眾遠離自己。

不小心把自己的好處擺在前面，自私的念頭終將被法則戳破，順序錯誤的養生方式難逃被修理的命運。

養生道理和生命哲理一致，身體的思考依據大自然的法則，除了捨我其誰的風範，身體還是義無反顧的典範。

 

得到什麼和留下什麼也是必須釐清的思考順序，生命的關鍵思考是留下，不是擁有。

人生很有限，這個事實存在重大的生命提示，既然都要離開，重點不會是擁有什麼，是留下什麼。

這一趟旅程能為地球做什麼，人生旅途能為後代做些什麼，重點是現在我們在做什麼、忙什麼。

幸福的定義延伸至健康，健康的全貌成就了幸福，讓環境更好的努力成就了快樂、定義了健康。

健康的能力都在身上，擁有健康是本能，把身體的能力放大，讓喚醒人類的原始能力成為巨大的力量。

感謝身體提供的清晰視角，「愛自己、做自己、幫助他人」被我的靈感催生且記錄，終於了悟健康的完整定義。

 

（自由是健康的一種面向，可是只要我們把自己的身體定義成屬於自己的一部分，自由就不可能存在。）

 

The Complete Definition of Health (Part 2)

Someone posted a personal ad online, listing a few conditions and expressing a need for companionship to fill the void of loneliness. It was clearly an advertisement seeking a partner.

In the end, the one who filled this void came from an unexpected encounter. They hit it off quickly, and all the beautiful moments that followed had nothing to do with the personal ad.

You have a professional skill set but have been unemployed for some time. To make a living, you have to find a job unrelated to your expertise.

By chance, a company happens to need someone with your skills. Through a friend’s introduction, you smoothly transition into a job that allows you to fully utilize your talents. The previous days of enduring frustration now feel like a bad dream.

There is nothing wrong with seeking companionship online or applying for jobs—both are often done out of necessity and difficult circumstances. Similarly, mothers who do not breastfeed often have their own struggles, whether due to a busy work schedule or an inability to produce milk.

The brain tends to rationalize situations in a way that seems logical, yet fate often operates outside the scope of reason. The human mind is an expert at misplacing priorities, just as it is a master of justification.

Sitting in front of a doctor and sitting in front of an interviewer evoke similar thought patterns—a mindset of desperation. Escaping this mindset is not easy.

“Give me medicine” and “Give me a job” reflect a parallel way of thinking. In a strict sense, a beggar asking for a few coins or a piece of bread follows the same motivational pattern—both have taken a wrong turn at some crossroads in life.

The most crucial mindset we lack is being less stubborn and more accepting, blaming less and empathizing more. This is both a philosophy of life and a fundamental principle of well-being.

If I were an interviewer, I would be more inclined to hire someone who gives me the impression of wanting to help rather than someone who is merely looking for any job.

In this world, we are not here just to gain something for ourselves. Our original purpose is to serve others.

Those who find themselves have a chance to find health—because they are in tune with their bodies. Those who love themselves also love their bodies. This realization serves as a crucial guide to staying free from illness.

We all have life before we consider work—that is an unchanging order. However, we must carefully analyze the nature of the work before us, as the idea that survival depends on having a job is deeply ingrained in our society.

Service comes first, contribution second, and personal gain last. If this order is reversed, our attitude will show the consequences.

Having a job does not guarantee absolute security, just as having money does not guarantee a worry-free life. Survival is not the problem—misplaced priorities are.

Defining health incorrectly is a serious issue. The pharmaceutical industry and commercialized nutrition have turned the world of health and wellness upside down. Society prioritizes business tactics, leading people further away from themselves.

When we mistakenly put our personal benefits first, selfish intentions are inevitably exposed by natural laws. A misguided approach to wellness is destined to be corrected.

The philosophy of well-being aligns with the philosophy of life. The body functions according to the laws of nature. Beyond its unwavering dedication, the body serves as an unquestionable role model.

Understanding what we gain versus what we leave behind is another order of thinking that must be clarified. The key to life is not possession but legacy.

Life is finite. This reality serves as an important reminder: since we all must leave one day, the focus should not be on what we own but on what we leave behind.

What can this journey contribute to the Earth? What can our lives offer to future generations? The real question is: what are we doing now? What are we busy with?

The definition of happiness extends to health, and a complete view of health leads to true happiness. The effort to improve our environment fosters joy and ultimately defines health.

The ability to be healthy is within us. Health is instinctive. By amplifying the body’s capabilities, we awaken the primal strength inherent in all humans.

I am grateful for the clarity my body provides. Inspired by my realization, I have documented this guiding principle: “Love yourself, be yourself, and help others.” Finally, I have comprehended the complete definition of health.