生命是一段化解未知恐懼的路程，當令你恐懼的事情出現在眼前，恐懼瞬間消失，因為你不能逃避。

麻煩的事、糟糕的事、棘手的事，終究要降臨。

生命這一段因果線無法隨心所欲，不可控的因子就是在可控的外圍伺機而動，除了自己之外，可能發生在所愛的人和愛我們的人身上。

生命最難的事是你愛的人在想什麼你不知道，他選擇對他不利而你無法掌控的事情，可是你必須承擔他所做的選擇。

最無明的劇情就是遠離養生本質的醫病對話，不舒服的病人表達強烈的康復需求，對話的關鍵劇情在雙方的內心深處，醫生清楚這是病人自己的事，病人多半期許這是醫生可以負責的事。

稍微留意，發現生活中不乏類似的劇本，肇事者把責任推給被害者，不愛自己的人把失去健康的責任推給完全無關的人。

 

「刮別人鬍子之前先刮自己的鬍子」，這句廣告詞在人世間幾乎不怎麼管用，人們最擅長的除了不管好自己外，就是愛管閒事。

別人的健康是你最不應該插手的閒事，好或壞、進步或退步，都和你無關，吃藥的事、看哪位醫生的事，絕對不是你可以有意見的事。

你認為最好的意見可能是終結對方生命的決定，鼓吹親友就醫之後前往告別式現場為親友送行，類似的劇情屢見不顯，而多管閒事的人從來沒有反省的誠意。

生病的人其實可以自由做自己的選擇，最難理解的部分是人情導致病情的發展，人情又繼續干擾病情的走向，沒有機會理解的是不一樣的選擇可能的結果。

這是攸關生死的大事，兩件事情必須先明確，首先是養生的定義，接著是治療的意義，前者可以釐清何謂療癒，後者可以直搗製藥邏輯的謬誤。

病存在深奧的一面，卻也存在順從自然法則的簡單脈絡，不願意學習這些深奧道理的背後，卻也存在人們不認識自己也不愛自己的人世現實。

 

生死是生命大事，我們所提供的意見有可能牽連到人的生或死，我們所銷售的商品有可能牽動使用者的生命品質。

我曾經落入營養補充世界的泥沼，直到體會到這是沒有極限的商法結構，被推銷不如自己精進，聽別人說不如自己清楚需求。

我也曾經是醫藥世界的培育養成者，對於醫藥指令言聽計從，直到我親臨身體之道，明瞭聽醫生說不如聽身體說。

寫下「養生的全貌是承擔」那一刻，內心充滿感恩，我的激動來自於生命考驗後的覺悟，看到願意為自己承擔的眼神和身影，全力以赴是我內心最真實的承諾。

沒有對著別人的那支手指頭，指責和卸責的元素不存在環境中，這是揚棄病痛因子的地方，這是有實力幫助更多人為健康承擔的教育方向。

先銷售動機，後行銷承擔，這是養生教育的精髓，是引領每一位學習者看到自己生命真相的機會，也是對於後代子孫的生命品質責無旁貸的工程。

 

最嚴苛的生命考驗莫過於妻子的離世，考驗不是生命中少掉重要的陪伴，還有我的學員對事件的錯誤解讀。

親密的家人離開人世是考驗健康的大事，疫苗後遺症是大事，發展出人命更屬大事的格局，我必須淡化善後的處置，因為病程複雜，人性也複雜。

我有責任照顧好妻子的健康，唯獨旁人很容易忽略她和我是不同的獨立個體，她有屬於她個人的執著和心性，而且用藥的工作環境導致她保留了給藥的空間和治療的需求。

對於疫苗傷害的輕忽是我的過失，沒能阻擋她去打了那要命的一劑，我繼續阻擋不了她尋求醫治的決定，我深信類固醇處方是奪走她生命的關鍵毒害。

對我而言，這是生命大考驗，也是大覺悟，除了更加透徹人性在健康表現上的影響，我更能掌握養生教育的大方向。

不理會所有的指責謾罵，不在意所有的鄙視誤解，那是他人的世界，生命各自承擔的基調不會改變，所有事都要承擔的結果，不小心迎接了病痛，耽誤了健康。

 

（生命中沒有遺憾，只有從中獲得教訓。）

 

The Lives of Others

Life is a journey of dissolving the fear of the unknown. When the things you fear most appear before you, the fear vanishes in an instant—because you have no choice but to face them.
Troublesome, terrible, and difficult situations will inevitably come. The causal thread of life cannot always be dictated at will. Uncontrollable factors lurk just beyond the boundaries of what we can control, waiting for the right moment—not only affecting us but also impacting those we love and those who love us.

The hardest part of life is not knowing what the people you love are thinking. They may choose something harmful to themselves—something beyond your control—yet you must bear the consequences of their choices.
The most bewildering scenario is the doctor-patient dialogue that strays far from the essence of health. A suffering patient expresses a strong desire for recovery, yet the core of the conversation lies deep within both parties’ hearts. The doctor knows the illness ultimately belongs to the patient, while the patient often hopes that the doctor will take full responsibility.

If you pay attention, you’ll find similar patterns everywhere in life. Wrongdoers shift the blame onto their victims. People who neglect their health push the responsibility for their suffering onto unrelated individuals.

“Shave your own beard before shaving someone else’s.” This advertising slogan rarely holds true in real life. People are not only bad at managing themselves but are also overly eager to meddle in others’ affairs.

Other people’s health is the last thing you should interfere with. Whether good or bad, improving or deteriorating—it has nothing to do with you. What medicine to take and which doctor to see are entirely personal matters. Your well-intentioned advice might actually lead to the end of someone’s life. Encouraging a friend or relative to seek medical treatment, only to later attend their funeral, is an all-too-common scenario. Yet, those who meddle never seem to reflect on their actions.

Sick individuals should have the freedom to make their own choices. The most difficult part to comprehend is how human relationships influence the progression of illness—how emotions further complicate its course. What often goes unconsidered is how different choices could lead to different outcomes.

This is a matter of life and death. Two things must first be clarified: the definition of health preservation and the true meaning of treatment. The former clarifies what healing truly is, while the latter exposes the flaws in pharmaceutical logic.

Illness exists on a profound level but also follows simple, natural laws. The unwillingness to learn these deeper truths reflects a broader reality—people do not know themselves, nor do they love themselves.

Life and death are serious matters. The advice we give can influence whether someone lives or dies. The products we sell can impact the quality of life for those who use them.

I once fell into the trap of the nutritional supplement industry until I realized it was an endless business model. Being persuaded to buy is never as valuable as self-improvement; listening to others is never as powerful as understanding one’s own needs.
I was also trained in the medical field and once blindly followed medical directives. But after personally experiencing the wisdom of the body, I realized that listening to the body is far more important than simply obeying doctors.

When I wrote, “The essence of health preservation is taking responsibility,” my heart was filled with gratitude. My emotions stemmed from the realization that came after life’s trials—the moment I saw the determination in the eyes of those willing to take responsibility for their own well-being. Giving my all became my truest commitment.

No fingers pointed at others. No accusations. No shifting of blame. This is a place where the causes of illness are abandoned—a place where people gain the ability to truly take responsibility for their health.

First, sell the motivation; then, promote the responsibility. This is the essence of health education—the opportunity for every learner to see the truth of their own existence. It is also a duty we owe to future generations to ensure their quality of life.

The most severe test of my life was the passing of my wife. It was not just the loss of a beloved companion but also the misinterpretations of the event by my students.

Losing a close family member is a major test of one’s health. The side effects of vaccines are a serious matter. When those side effects result in the loss of life, the gravity of the situation is undeniable. I had to downplay the aftermath because the course of the illness was complex—just as human nature is complex.

I had a responsibility to care for my wife’s health. However, people often overlook the fact that she and I were independent individuals. She had her own convictions and temperament. Her profession, which involved pharmaceuticals, made her more receptive to medical treatments.

My failure to prevent her from taking that fatal dose of the vaccine was my mistake. But I could not stop her from seeking medical treatment either. I firmly believe that the steroid prescription was the key toxin that took her life.

For me, this was the ultimate test of life—and my greatest awakening. I not only gained deeper insight into the influence of human nature on health but also developed a clearer direction for health education.

I ignore all accusations and insults. I am indifferent to all misunderstandings and contempt. Those belong to the worlds of others. The foundation of life is that everyone must take responsibility for their own journey. The consequence of failing to do so is illness, which in turn delays the pursuit of true health.